Your question was directed to those that have gone from a Raptor to an RHO. I have gone Platinum, GEN2, GEN2, TRX, GEN3 and now RHO. Going to the TRX was unbelievably tough for me because I had never owned a Ram and all of the negative comments from folks were concerning me, to the point that I brought my own mechanic to the dealership on pickup (since they wouldn't let early buyers test drive). Anyway, that TRX was awesome in every way. As a "Ford guy", I was blown away and never had an issue. That said, the TRX was a heavier vehicle and it showed in its handling. It also had horrible range because of the terrible MPG. So, I went back to a 23' Raptor. It gave me my range and it was more nimble and drove like a sports car. However, it developed a rattle in the first 5k miles (like my other raptors did) and interior was crap (steering wheel center turned chalk white within months). Even in 23', Ford was still deleting options because of chip shortage, which says a lot about Ford's management. And while it did have a loud exhaust, I actually found it embarrassing. You step on the gas and the truck was loud - which let everyone know you were stepping on it - and the truck didn't move. It was loud for the sake of being loud and like a loudmouth at a party, I just couldn't stand it. The RHO still has the heaviness of the TRX, but the ride is smooth and quiet and the interior is miles ahead. Wife really likes the smooth/quiet ride, massage seats and separate screen, which many on here will decry as irrelevant, but having a wife that is ok taking the truck on a road trip rather than her douchey SUV is a huge plus for me. Second row on RHO also reclines for teenage kid, which he prefers. RHO is much faster than Raptor, but is quieter about it, which is just fine with me because I prefer understated (which is why I debadge everything).
As for Ram quality, I just think that confirmation bias reigns supreme on these boards. Fords have plenty of problems as do Rams and Chevies, and if you go to any board or group, you will read and hear about them, but then those same people will not hesitate to be negative about other brands.
At the end of the day, I wouldn't let quality be the deciding factor. Just go drive the two trucks and let that dictate your decision. They drive completely differently, and you will know what is right for you the moment you do.